cloudsDivorce is never easy. It affects all parts of your well being, from financial, to physical, to mental and, for many, it feels as though the defining elements of your life have been whisked away.

But divorce does not have to tear you and your family apart. By choosing the Finger Lakes Holistic Divorce approach, you will engage in a process that minimizes hostility and conflict, preserves positive relationships, and fosters creative solutions to fit the circumstances of your family.

The traditional approach to divorce is an emotionally and economically destructive process. Using the Court system, lawyers exploit fear and anger to propel the parties through months, and sometimes years, of grueling combat, all the while grinding the divorcing couple to despair. This deliberate infliction of pain bears no relevance to the outcome or the future needs and interests of the parties. As with any such combat, the only winning move is not to play.

Through the Holistic Divorce approach, you and your partner will work together with a trained mediator in an environment where you can develop the mutual understanding to manage your separation and divorce with a sense of fairness and dignity. You will be provided with techniques to achieve independence through private, rational discussions. This allows for your relationship to be restructured without destroying good will and provides you with everything you need to develop a new family structure focused on creating a stable, peaceful life for you and your children.

With the proper mindset and the right assistance, virtually every couple can come to their own agreement as to what will happen with your children, your house, your assets, credit card, and where applicable, support. Your divorce does not need to mean a complete destruction of your savings and your psyche. Through Holistic Divorce approach, you will resolve the end of your marital relationship in less time, for less money than going to Court, and emerge unmarried, unattached and with as little emotional baggage as possible.